Ask for Help
Everyone needs help sometimes. If you're going through a tough time, it's okay to talk to people about it. It's also okay to ask them to help you.
Perhaps you don't want to be a bother. But keep some things in mind:
- If someone offers to help you, they really mean it.
- If you don't follow up and accept their help, that's your responsibility. It's not their responsibility to keep offering to help you. They probably think that would make you feel bad.
- The best way to get the help you need is to tell people exactly what they can do to help you.
People can't read your mind. And it doesn't mean you're a weak person if you need to ask for help. It just makes you human. Everyone needs help during their life, not just you.